So many things in our behavior makes no sense if we really think about. Here are some that came to mind today (and that may or may not come from personal experience ?):
When we complain about others that they don’t do what they are supposed to do, and yet when they finally do, we complain that they do it all wrong…..
When we think that people have strong opinions and deep thoughts about us, but fail to realize that they probably don’t because they are occupied with thinking that same thing exactly about themselves….
When we put great hopes that that next new purchase will bring us the solutions to all our needs, realize that it doesn’t, but forget about it again soon and repeat the same pattern all over again….
When we think that this challenge that we are in the midst of, is huge and impossible to overcome, but do not make a point of remembering the others just like it, that already in our memories aren’t at all that bad….
When we worry that others will think bad of us now that we have been wearing the same clothes two times in a row and yet, when trying to remember what the others wore that last time, have no recollection what so ever….
I am sure that you have many more examples like these and would love to hear them!